How much do we carry that is not ours? The ten of wands is a card of carried burden. I think we get to a point where we realize we’ve been taking on more than we were ever meant to. This coping mechanism has done so much destruction to me personally and I have to look at those ways I have made life comfortable for everyone around me, to my own detriment. It goes so deep and so far back, that I didn’t realize I was doing it. To stop the pattern and claim our own space and validity is paramount and takes so much courage. We must find ways to stand upright in the world and hold solid boundaries. It’s the ultimate act of self love to put us back on the road to Selfhood.